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HumanBones Boner!
Joined: 01 Jun 2004 Location: Shangri-La Dee Da
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 7:37 am Post subject: |
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Niv: I'm really glad to see that, although it is taking some time, you are getting through this. Dealing with the passing of someone close to you is never easy. My original post in this thread was not as sincere as it could have been, however I hope (and I'm you sure you do) know how I really felt.
I'm just really glad that you're getting through this, because I know how tough it must be for you. I've brought many personal problems to people here, and they've helped me through them. I hope you dont forget that we're here for you if you need anything (and vampy too, cant forget you ). |
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Roscoe3000 Unstoppable!
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Location: Schmocation
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:21 am Post subject: |
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*This* is a thread worth ressurecting. I had only heard rumours about Thunder. This thread told me a lot. Niv, Vampy, all involved, I'm sorry for your loss of such a short time ago. Niv, way to pull through, man. You are strong. I'm sure that Vampy and family are doing the same.
This thread... It makes me think "I wish I could've met her" but it also makes me think...
"I'm glad to know you all"
This message humbly and sincerely brought to you by
-The Stooge |
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BaRaKa has entered the game!
Joined: 12 May 2003 Location: az
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:34 pm Post subject: |
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Eyah she was awsome. Talked to her alot about niv back in the day
I would clue her in with all the juicy details about NiV
Thunder told me her & niv were talking alot lately I was @ niv's house one night he's sneaking around talking all sweet on the phone I told him right then & there "I know who yer talking to" Don't worry secret safe with me
W3rd Up
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switcher Spamming!
Joined: 26 Jun 2004 Location: DUI All The Way
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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From personal experience with these things, I've found there's no such thing as 'closure' and you never really 'get over' them.
There is nothing worse than losing a loved one.
You just learn to accept that it is what it is and you move on.
The hole is always there, it's just that you get used to dealing with it as time glosses things over.
Glad to see you're getting along Niv. |
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Skitz0.X Unstoppable!
Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Location: aka xtrackt
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:47 pm Post subject: |
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Can't say I knew Thunder very well, but Vampy...Niv...I've known both of you fairly well for a while now.
Niv especially...to some degree, I'm disgusted by some of my haunting memories of Niv signing on as "Y" beating everyone on DoomServ, humbling me to a despicable degree
*shakes his head*
It's difficult to really word anything that doesn't sound trite or fake...as a passing of someone is an unreal and tragically hard thing to deal with.
I don't "know" how any of you feel...Vampy...Niv...family...but I do know how it feels to lose someone close.
All I can say is it's pretty impressive to see your post, Niv.
Introspective and strong words coming from a strong man.
Good for you.
Once more, you humble me |
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[SIN]Hatred God like!
Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Location: Toledo, Ohio
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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Ah, this is indeed a good post--no need to echo the thoughts of others.
I remember back at the LAN in Brampton when we were talking about how cool it is to meet each other and have this sort of expierence. You mentioned that for the first time since Rachel passed away, you felt happy because of the opportunity you got to meet people. The LAN was a great expierence indeed, and it's good to see you sounding strong like this once again. Remember, we can't replace her, but we're always here for yah--through thick and through thin. Though, I'll always hate you deeply for leaving me a whole paragraph while talking in pm, and i respond to it leaving 2 paragraphs in return and I keep on talking only to realize you left without saying a word.
Stop that shit man, stop.
We got your back homie dog g lover, don't be trippin'.
Wigger moment[/end]
Your friend,
Hatred
P.S. I think some comic relief is in order:
^ Niv's High School senior picture. |
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Killemall Unstoppable!
Joined: 12 May 2007 Location: NEED QUACKUP Posts: 0
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 10:53 pm Post subject: |
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Man, its never good to see someone leave, even if it was a while back
I personally wasnt around at the time, but I've heard a lot of good things about her, she sounds like a good person to be around, losing someone is always painful.
Roscoe3000 wrote: | *This* is a thread worth ressurecting. |
Well said |
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niv Unstoppable!
Joined: 07 May 2005 Location: Bay Area, California
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 5:01 am Post subject: |
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You guys are the greatest. Thanks so much for your support. I hope Vampy takes a break from WOW and reads your kind words. |
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Doomination God like!
Joined: 23 Oct 2006 Location: It's NOT lupus. Posts: 6.022 x 10^23
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 12:46 pm Post subject: |
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niv wrote: | You guys are the greatest. Thanks so much for your support. I hope Vampy takes a break from WOW and reads your kind words. |
what?? vampy is trapped under it's evil spell too?? |
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BaRaKa has entered the game!
Joined: 12 May 2003 Location: az
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 8:13 pm Post subject: |
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LOL Niv where did you get that pic @ man? That's some funny stuff y0!
W3rd Up DaWg!
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[n00b]Adereth Spamming!
Joined: 16 Jul 2005 Location: Oh god, what year is this?!
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 11:47 pm Post subject: |
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Please, MaLaKa, do not post in this thread like that. |
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BaRaKa has entered the game!
Joined: 12 May 2003 Location: az
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 12:47 am Post subject: |
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Who is MaLaKa and post like what?
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Vampire Knight Wicked Sick!
Joined: 10 Apr 2004 Location: Castlevania
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 1:46 am Post subject: |
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He means to say that because of the sensitive nature of this thead, you' re post could be considered rude, disrespectful or offensive. |
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Swag Unstoppable!
Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 2:13 am Post subject: |
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Well I've known Vampy since I first started on zdaemon... I've never brought up this subject; for one it was before I was here I don't really have much of a say in it I always thought... This isn't the first time I read this of course... Well Vampy I've always thought of you as my best friend on here, if you do feel the need to talk to me about it bring it up... I consider Niv a good friend although I haven't talked to him that much... Good luck to you both I wish you guys the best. |
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Ronald Rontard
Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Location: Netherlands Clan: [QnB]
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 8:00 pm Post subject: |
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This happened before my Zdaemon time, but I have heard about this several times. It indeed is very heart warming that the Zdaemon community is concerned with the fact that your beloved one passed away.
The reason I post here is because in the Netherlands we have saying for this. Maybe it helps you. I hope it does. "It is better to lose a beloved one than if you have never had it."
Note: This is not written the way it should in English, but I can not figure out how to say it properly. I am sorry for that. |
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[SIN]Hatred God like!
Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Location: Toledo, Ohio
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:17 am Post subject: |
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Vampire Knight wrote: | He means to say that because of the sensitive nature of this thead, you' re post could be considered rude, disrespectful or offensive. |
Niv wouldnt be offended since him and {BaRaKa} have known each other since 96. They both live in Phoenix and have known each other in real life for awhile. Dunno if you knew that or not, but just lettin yah know he wouldnt be offended |
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Roscoe3000 Unstoppable!
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Location: Schmocation
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:50 am Post subject: |
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Ronald wrote: | ... in the Netherlands we have saying for this. Maybe it helps you. I hope it does. "It is better to lose a beloved one than if you have never had it."
Note: This is not written the way it should in English, but I can not figure out how to say it properly. I am sorry for that. |
Perhaps it was "It is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all" ? |
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Vampire Knight Wicked Sick!
Joined: 10 Apr 2004 Location: Castlevania
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:35 pm Post subject: |
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[SIN]Hatred wrote: | Vampire Knight wrote: | He means to say that because of the sensitive nature of this thead, you' re post could be considered rude, disrespectful or offensive. |
Niv wouldnt be offended since him and {BaRaKa} have known each other since 96. They both live in Phoenix and have known each other in real life for awhile. Dunno if you knew that or not, but just lettin yah know he wouldnt be offended |
Oh yeah i know that, it was evident from his previous post. I was just interpreting what Adereth said as Baraka asked. I suppose i was just being a smart-ass |
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